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How To Be Happy


If someone put up a question in front of you asking, “what is the most important thing in your life?”, what will you answer?

Most people think about money, love, success, owning a car, or maybe a house, but they fail to understand that the most important key here is “happiness”. Whether you think about owning a car or a house or having a lot of money, what you experience is happiness. You can feel it for a moment or you can feel it for a lifetime, the choice is yours.

All these materialistic requirements provide you with momentary happiness, but the actual happiness comes from within and it can not be found in money or a house. Well by saying this I definitely do not mean that you should not be happy about buying a car! who would not be!

What I mean to say is that you should find a constant source of happiness, and trust me, it is not difficult at all!

All you need to do is make sure that you

1- Do not rely on others for your happiness!

We bungle our lives by seeking happiness in others, we think “if he/she accepts me, I will be thrilled” or “if I could make my parents proud, I can find my happiness!” or “if my boss is happy with me, I will never have to be unhappy!” thoughts like these are constantly diverting us from creating our happiness inside us. And sorry to burst the bubble! But you can never be happy just by keeping others happy.

2- Seek joy

Happiness and joy go hand in hand. If you know where your joy is, you will find your happiness sitting just next to it! You can be happy about every single thing, be it a driving lesson, or a nicely baked cake, try to pick up little bits of happiness, and combine them into one big source!

3- Do what makes you satisfied

Sometimes we can be happy by just cleaning our apartment or feeding the strays, and at times it can be really difficult for us to gratify ourselves. Try to seek for things that make you feel contented and always remember “good deeds are the key to satisfaction”.

4- Take your own decisions

Most of the time people choose a career that they are not sure of or do not want to pursue, and they do this just because their parents asked them to do so, or the other kids were doing the same, but your professional and personal decisions should never be influenced by others. If you do what you want to do, you will always be happy about it.

5-Meditate and take exercise

A healthy and active lifestyle can boost your confidence and will help you feel happy about yourself. Meditation will help you come out of every negative thought and will fill you with positivity.

6-Try to achieve your goals

Everyone will tell you that you should achieve your goals, and yes you should do it! But keep this in mind that you are not allowed to make such goals, that are almost impossible to achieve, or will question your potential! There are endless things that you are capable of doing!

8-Never compare yourself to others

Often people look at others and their achievements, and think that how successful they are, or think about the things that others have and all of these thoughts just make them unhappy and they forget about the good things that they have in their life. If you want to compare, then compare your past with your present and try to do things that can create a better future for you.

The more you are satisfied with yourself, the happier you feel.

Only you can be a constant source of your happiness.

And most important of all “Take care of your body, mind, and soul”.


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